💖 THE ONE AND ONLY… that is to say, OURSELVES!

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Oh, what  a human trait  it is to be!

   Lots of times we tend to offer everything to anybody else – sometimes we even tend to drain ourselves in order to be the givers. We tend to believe the other deserves everything we could (and, sometimes,  subconsciously press ourselves) to offer him/her, while we leave  nothing to give us! 😯 Not to mention the situation of a lover! In that case we often tend to sell out even our underwear, just because we have found THE one!!!!

   Hello!😂 Just let’s shake our heads everybody!

   Where have we left THE ONE AND ONLY to deserve our affection and “whole lotta love” (to remember the famous song by Led Zeppelin. …!)? Eh, where?😕

   Hmm. … scratch. ..scratch. … Oh, yeah! 😄

   Here we are! It’s our ONLY AND ONE self that we have left/neglected/forgotten aside/behind!!!

   Let’s start giving to OURSELVES our love and affection first,  then, so as  to have the reserve to offer them  to others! 💖💖💖

 

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Quit being the beggars of other people’s feelings …! 😲😎

I spent quite long periods in my life begging for another person’s love. Of course you don’t expect me dressed in rugs, back bending downwards and palm open, mumbling “love, love, give me love, please, gentle sir, dear madam”… But,  from a psychological point of view, it was the same , not to say even worse.

You see, in a situation like that, we act subconsciously, so we tend to be blind 😎, not being able to see what we are really doing : begging!

Whereas (believe me and say it loud to yourselves and let me repeat it once again to myself 😉), there is no need for no human creature to become a sentiments beggar. Continue reading